Thursday, May 11, 2017

TEN {a birthday post}

In April, Esther turned the big double digit 1-0!

I don't know if it is the whole four kids thing, or the ages of my kids, or the busy-ness of life, but I feel like the birthdays are coming so quickly these days!

Past birthdays can be found here:



The day I took these photos of my kids in this pretty wild flower field, was that day that Esther became a follower of Jesus! It was such a special day! 


Esther is a kind friend, a hard worker, a diligent student and a compassionate young lady!


 I am sure I probably have said this in years past, but she is really good at laughing at herself and not taking things too seriously! I love that quality about her!


{pic taken by Nic Taylor Photography}

She is fiercely loyal and an encourager to others! 
She is such a integral member of our family!



10 year old interview:

Favorite Color: pink and purple
Favorite movie: Sing and Moana
Favorite Food: Rice and grilled cheese
Favorite drink: pineapple Fanta
Favorite Friend: all the EH girls
Favorite thing to do with mom: doing school, cooking and playing games
Favorite thing to do with dad: throwing the ball with me on the trampoline and reading a book
Favorite thing about living in Africa: that I have a lot of friends
Favorite Bible Story: Esther
Favorite subject in school: handwriting (cursive)
What you want to be when you grow up: an actor 

Sunday, April 30, 2017

ELEVEN {birthday post}


Ahhh, these birthdays just won't stop. 
And while I am so proud of my kids and the people they are coming, these birthdays are so bittersweet. 
The time is just going by so fast. 
Every time I do one of these birthday posts, I remind myself to just soak it all up.

This month, our G man turned 11!

Past birthday posts below:



Grainger is our out-going, silly, confidant guy!
He develops friendships easy with kids and adults.
Usually when we are out and about without kids, adults will always ask, "Ah, how is Grainger?" 
He is a favorite of our guards and when he goes out to talk to them at night, you can hear them laughing and chatting in Chichewa. 


This picture just sums him up! 
Goofy and loves to make people laugh. 
He is quite the joke-ster.


G loves to process his feelings verbally (which is a lot).
He loves to cook and many times I will come in late from work to find he has already made dinner!
He enjoys drawing, building Lego's and playing football (soccer).


He is either best friends or worst enemies with his siblings.
He is usually the first to apologize when he has sinned and lost self control and recognizes the convictions of the Holy Spirit. 
He has a huge heart for the under dog and for the elderly. 
We sure do love our guy!

11 year old interview:

Favorite Color: red
Favorite movie: The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings
Favorite Food: "I love all food"
Favorite drink: Sprite
Favorite Friend: Dayson (cousin)
Favorite thing to do with mom: cook
Favorite thing to do with dad: play sports
Favorite thing about living in Africa: the animals 
Favorite Bible Story: David and Goliath
Favorite subject in school: Reading
What you want to be when you grown up: a chef

Monday, March 27, 2017

SEVEN

Our baby is SEVEN!

Past birthdays:

We feel so blessed that we have spent four birthdays with Asher!


Asher brings so much joy and laughter to our family.


She has never met a stranger. 


She is compassionate, silly, and is into everything!


She entertains herself well and has a great imagination.
  

Asher is a dare devil and has no fear of trying scary or new things. 


She is a go-er and a mover and a champion racer on all fours. Asher is an Uno extraordinaire!



Favorites at Seven

Favorite Colors: blue and red
Favorite Movie: Moana
Favorite Food: Cereal 
Favorite Drink: Kool-Aid
Favorite thing to play: "with my brother"
Favorite Friend: "Esther"
Favorite thing to do with mommy: "watch a movie and eat popcorn and chocolate with her"
Favorite thing to do with daddy: "hanging out in you guys-es bed and watching a movie and eating chocolate"
What do you want to be when you grown up? "a ballerina"

Sunday, February 26, 2017

Chatbooks

I tend to be late to the party....and even more so since living overseas, but I just LOVE Chatbooks! 
I am such a sentimental person! 
I love memories with my favorite people! 

I take lots of pictures, but they never get printed and tend to just get stored on the computer. 
So, I was pretty excited to learn about Chatbooks through a friend. 
If you haven't heard of these sweet little books, watch this entertaining video to learn all about it!


I chose to have my Chatbooks linked to my Instagram account. 
I downloaded the app and within minutes, I had all of my pictured uploaded onto the app and arranged into books. 
I spent about an hour editing and re-arranging the photos. 
This is with sllooooowwww dial-up speed internet out here in rural Malawi. 
When your book has 60 pictures in it, you will automatically receive an email that your book is done. You then have 3 days to edit your book before it ships!

I had the books shipped to my mom's house since I knew we were going to travel back to the States for Christmas. I was really excited to get my hands on our memories!



The paper quality is nice and thick, the ink is vibrant. 
Some of my first pictures I used on Instagram were from an Iphone 3, so the camera wasn't that great and my photos are grainy, but it really doesn't bother me, I just love having the memories!



The size of the books are about 6" x 6" and are an affordable $8!
Perfect for little hands (not mine, obviously, but the kids)


 Each page has a date stamp and a place for captions (or no captions which I sometimes choose if I don't feel like dealing with it.)


My kids absolutely LOVE looking at the books. 
They are nice and sturdy, so I don't stress about them tearing the books up. 
I absolutely love how the girls now have books that include them in the family pictures!


Another feature of this app that is my favorite is the ability to upload pictures straight off of my phone camera. My kids are getting older and don't always want their pictures posted to Instagram (I try to always ask permission from them first). 

Being able to "add a photo" allows me to add pictures without posting the photo to Instagram. 
If you aren't a social media person, you can have ALL of your photos added to Chatbooks straight from your phone favorites. 

Do you already do Chatbooks? Do you love them also?
Would you like to try Chatbooks for yourself?
I have a fun offer for you! Follow this link to get your first Chatbook FREE!
 In full disclosure, I will also receive a $5 credit to my next book! 
Win-Win for all!


Monday, February 13, 2017

Malawi Mondays {Rainy Season}

It's been awhile since I have written a Malawi Monday! When we were stateside for our 6 week furlough over Christmas, one of my friends mentioned that she and her kids enjoyed learning about Malawi through these posts. So,  I thought I would add some more about what life is like here in Malawi, through expat eyes. 

It's February, so I thought I would write about what happens here in February....rain, lots and lots of rain. For example, yesterday it rained and within an hour, filled up my 60 liter trash barrel.



In America, we call our rainy season "Spring". Trees and flowers begin to blossom, we start shedding our winter wears, and in the evenings, lawn mower engines are humming in every suburban neighborhood. But, in the US (or at least in the South) we typically receive rain all throughout the year.

In Malawi, rainy season is pretty much the only time of year that we receive any type of precipitation (at least in our area). The rains start in November/December and usually finish up around March/April.

A good rainy season is imperative for most Malawians. Malawi is primarily  an agriculture community. When the rains are "officially here" you will find the majority of Malawians out in their gardens planting seed. You may see some people plant ground nuts (peanuts), green beans, tomatoes, potatoes, etc. But everyone is planting maize (corn). Maize is the primary ingredient to make Nsima. Nsima is the staple food of Malawi. It is typically eaten with every meal. You can read more about Nsima  here. Too much rain or too little rain has life impacting consequences on the people here.

This is our fourth season to be living in Malawi during the rainy season. The first rainy season we were here, it rained off and on. Nothing to extreme from what we were used to living in Arkansas.

The second year, we saw MAJOR rains. As in, rained so hard that the rushing waters took down our 10 foot tall brick wall that had just been constructed in the back of our campus. It rained so hard that many houses and gardens were washed away. A man from a village a mile from our home drowned trying to walk home. The flooding lasted for two weeks and then the rains went away. People tried to replant their gardens, but the rains never returned. The harvests in our area were very small and people went hungry that year. You can read more about how people were effected here.

The third season we were in Malawi, we had a mild rainy season. It would rain for a day and then not rain for two weeks. About the time everyone was chewing their nails that their gardens were going to dry up, another rain would come. Our area had a decent crop, although many parts of Malawi experienced major flooding and then droughts. You can read more here.

This year, we are experiencing rain every day. This has been the pattern since November. The gardens are looking good. The water does not seem to have caused too much damage in our area, although we have heard of flooding in other parts of Malawi.

I had never lived in a country before where the amount of rain received has such life impacting consequences.  Too much rains equals the loss of home and garden. Too little rain also means the loss of garden, which is the primary way that people feed themselves for the year. Most Malawians do not have the money to go buy maize if their garden fails. When droughts and flooding happens, the price of maize sky rockets because it becomes a hot commodity.

The first year that we moved here, I was telling one of our staff members about how much I loved rainy season. I loved the sound of rain on the tin roof of our house. I loved the cool down of weather and I especially was in awe over the beautiful sunsets. I loved how everything turns green, the dust disappears and the country is lush and beautiful.

She explained that my experience was somewhat different than our neighbors living around us in the village. Rain doesn't sound pretty on the rooftop when it is leaking through your thatch roof at night when you are sleeping. Rain doesn't seem peaceful when it is rushing through the floor of your hut. A typical Malawian home is made of mud bricks and uses mud instead of concrete to lay the walls. Lots of water = the potential for your house to fall apart each rainy season. I enjoyed rainy season because the amount of rain doesn't effect how much or little I will eat this year.




My perspective was totally different than my neighbors. Which I guess is how this whole ex-pat thing works? We come from different cultures, backgrounds, experiences. We view things through different lenses. Part of the hard and the beauty of living in another country is learning to see the perspective of  those you have come to live life with.

Saturday, February 11, 2017

Arkansas to Africa {Part 11 Delays}

Welp, I did not mean to neglect my little blog, but somehow many months have passed by and here she lays, all dusty. I am excited to get back into updating this little space more often and to finally sitting down and finishing the AR to AF series. I am finding that my memory is getting fuzzy on the details and I want to wrap this up before I completely forget it!

I have had several people ask me, "how in the world did y'all wind up in Africa"?

Most of the time that ends with me stuttering around and giving some kind of a lame answer.

Not because there isn't a really good (non-lame) answer,
but because it is hard to know where to get started.

Sooo, I thought I would begin to share the story that God wrote for us.
It is a looonng story that spans many years.
But don't worry, no chapter book today!
 I will give it to you a bit at a time!


If you want to catch up to speed, you can find:

Part 1 {here}
Part 2 {here}
Part 3 {here}
Part 4 {here}
Part 5 {here}
Part 6 {here}
Part 7 {here}
Part 8 {here}

Part 9 {here}
Part 10 {here}

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After leaving off 18 months ago {i will complete this, i will complete this}, we thought we would get approval to travel to bring our daughters home in February 2013 and move to Malawi in May 2013. We received news that changed our timeline and left us unsure of how it all was going to go down.

The United States Embassy in our girl's birth country issued a change in policy. Instead of a two week investigation before approval of visas, they were going to begin a mandatory 6 month investigation. On one hand, we were all for more checks and balances to make sure our adoption was ethical, but on the other hand, the delay felt like a punch in the gut as our girls were waiting in a transition house for us. The extra six month wait felt like an eternity. We also weren't sure that six months wouldn't actually turn into a year or more. Our girls were from a village that was a six hour flight from where the US Embassy was located. The USE had no idea of when they would actually make it to their area to perform their investigation. 

While we waited, we started our fundraising to move to Malawi. We took advantage of our girls not being home and spent four months meeting (once, twice, sometimes three meeting a day) with friends, family, and churches to find ministry partners. God performed miracles and led people to come on board with us and completely fund all of our needs. It was really a big faith building and humbling time.

Meanwhile, it looked like our girls' investigation was not going to happen anytime soon. We decided to go ahead and move to Malawi and live there until we gained permission to come and get our daughters. We sold our house and the majority of our belongings. What we didn't sell, we loaded onto a 12' x 12' space and shipped our things to Malawi. We bought tickets to move in July 2013. 

A few weeks before we moved, we received a special surprise that caused us to cancel our flights to Malawi.......




Stay tuned! I promise I will update before 18 months passes by again. 




Thursday, July 7, 2016

Kenya/Tanzania

In May, I had an awesome opportunity to travel with one of our board members to check out a couple of organizations in Kenya. 

We were able to visit Mercy House and Raffiki Foundation.
Both are amazing organizations that we were able to learn from and be encouraged by.
I am so thankful for the opportunity to check out other work going on in Africa. It was a terrific experience and a great gauge to measure Esther's House by! 

A few days before the trip, my friend and board member, told me that we were going to be able to go on a safari. So, I threw a pair of pants and a jacket into my suitcase and mentally checked off "day safari" in my head.  I had no idea what I was in for on this safari trip, because lo and behold....we went to The Serengeti! It was perhaps the coolest thing that I have ever experienced; truly a once in a lifetime kinda thing.  I still can't wrap my mind around the things that I was able to see and experience. 

I took a bazillion pictures and am posting some of my favorites.....


















The wildebeest has never been an animal that I have been terribly interested in, but found such a deep admiration for them. We were able to see a huge wildebeest migration where the animals were just sprinting for hours in a long line....2.5 million wildebeest migrating to find water. It was incredible!





Hello, hippos! So cool to find 200 or so hippos just chilling' in a pond.





The amazing ladies I got to experience this trip with.


Ngorongoro crater again on our way back to civilization.

What an incredible opportunity! 
The animals in their natural habitats, the sunsets; what a worshipful experience seeing God's creation!
No matter where I travel or what I get to see, my favorite place in the world is at home with my family. 
Trips away are always good to remind me of that!



Thursday, June 16, 2016

TWELVE

Last week our oldest turned 12. 

It is our last year before we have to start throwing "teen" in on his birthdays. 

I am sure if I go back and read all of his birthday posts, I will see that every year I have a bit of a hard time with my first- born continuing to grow older!
It's such bitter sweet feelings all rolled up together.
I love seeing glimpses of the man he is becoming but also clearly see how fast this whole mom-gig is going by. 

And this mom-gig is my favorite thing.

Past Birthdays:


Things I want to remember about Z at 12....
Z is our one quiet child. 
He is greatly outnumbered by all the "louds" in our house.


We are learning his love language is quality time.
He loved that on his birthday, he got to pick all 3 meals and have his whole family sit together and eat and watch him open a gift. 


He and his dad got to get away for the weekend on his birthday and spent the night in a hotel.
You could just tell his quality time cup was filled when he got home. 


He continues his love for reading and most of the time if he goes missing, you can find him in the house with a book.



He is still our day dreamer and I love the ideas he comes up with!
He is learning to play the guitar and likes to practice and watch videos.


He is growing into his role of being the big brother to 3.
He loves to play with his siblings on the trampoline or bring them into his game he invented. 
He is also totally fine being by himself. 






Favorites at 12:

Favorite Color: black and neon green
Favorite movie: Battle of 5 Armies
Favorite Food: fried chicken
Favorite drink: Sprite
Favorite thing to play: sword fighting
Favorite Friend: Corbin
Favorite thing to do with mom: watch movies
Favorite thing to do with dad: Legos, drawing, and sports stuff
Favorite thing about living in Africa: it's really pretty
Favorite Bible Story: Joshua
Favorite subject in school: History
What you want to be when you grow up: a blacksmith for making weapons for movies
 
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